In our work with families, we often ask questions and provide information. Which is more likely to be effective and motivational? The answer, which happens to be yes or no questions, along with more information, is available here: https://www.forbes.com/sites/amymorin/2016/01/22/study-reveals-a-conversation-trick-that-motivates-people-to-change-their-behavior/#77299bde6ff0